Mother’s Day is a poignant reminder that my mother passed away two years ago. She was a wonderful woman – both mother and dearest friend – whose character and values shaped mine. Readers will be intrigued at the nuanced approach Rebecca has taken to exploring mother-daughter relationships in her new novel, Silver Echoes (see below for details), which releases May 20th.
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Mother-daughter relationships offer a wealth of dramatic potential for writers. They are complex, nuanced, and often filled with both profound love and equally profound conflict.
In my new novel, Silver Echoes, I delved into this dynamic through the real-life characters of Baby Doe Tabor and her daughter, Silver Dollar, iconic American women from 1880s-1930s.
Here are some of the key aspects I explored and how I approached them as a writer:
1. The Push and Pull of Devotion:
A mother’s devotion can be a powerful force, but it can also clash with a daughter’s need for independence. In Silver Echoes, Baby Doe’s fierce protectiveness stems from love, but it sometimes chafes against Silver Dollar’s rebellious spirit. And actually traumatizes her.
- Writing Challenge: Showcasing both the positive and negative sides of this devotion.
- Approach: Alternating perspectives and internal conflict.
- I used alternating timelines to give readers access to both Baby Doe’s and Silver Dollar’s inner thoughts. This allows for a deeper understanding of their motivations. For example, Baby Doe’s actions, though sometimes overbearing, are often rooted in genuine concern for Silver’s safety, as seen in her anxieties about Silver’s career choices and the men she associates with.
- To convey the internal conflict, I focused on the characters’ inner monologues. Silver Dollar, for instance, often struggles with her desire to please her mother and her need to assert her own identity. This is illustrated in her internal battles about pursuing her ambitions versus settling down as her mother wishes.
- Examples from the book:
- We see Baby Doe’s devotion in her tireless efforts to understand Silver’s life, even after years of estrangement, and her willingness to confront dangerous individuals to uncover the truth.
- Silver Dollar’s perspective reveals her appreciation for her mother’s support but also her frustration with Baby Doe’s traditional views, which she perceives as limiting.
2. The Enduring Impact of Maternal Influence:
A mother’s words, actions, and expectations can shape a daughter’s life in profound ways, even long after the daughter becomes an adult. Silver Echoes demonstrates how Baby Doe’s values and beliefs, shaped by her own experiences, influence Silver Dollar’s choices and self-perception.
- Writing Challenge: Demonstrating the subtlety of this influence without making it overly simplistic or heavy-handed.
- Approach: Using memory, subtext, and recurring motifs.
- I employed flashbacks and memories to show how Baby Doe’s teachings and experiences become ingrained in Silver Dollar’s subconscious. These memories resurface at crucial moments, influencing Silver Dollar’s decisions.
- Subtext in dialogue is also vital. The way Baby Doe and Silver Dollar communicate, the things they avoid saying, and the underlying assumptions in their conversations reveal the lasting impact of their shared history.
- Recurring motifs, such as religious imagery or references to societal expectations of women, reinforce the idea of maternal influence.
- Examples from the book:
- Baby Doe’s emphasis on respectability clashes with Silver Dollar’s desire for a more unconventional life, creating a recurring tension.
- Silver Dollar’s internal struggles with guilt and societal judgment often reflect her internalization of her mother’s values.
3. The Pain of Separation and the Need for Connection:
Physical or emotional distance can create a deep ache in the mother-daughter relationship. Silver Echoes explores the different forms this separation can take and the characters’ attempts to bridge the gap.
- Writing Challenge: Avoiding sentimentality while still conveying the emotional weight of this separation.
- Approach: Focusing on longing and the characters’ attempts to connect.
- Letters become a crucial device, highlighting both the desire for connection and the limitations of distance. The content and tone of the letters reveal the characters’ attempts to bridge the emotional gap.
- Memories, unspoken gestures, and moments of vulnerability become powerful in conveying the characters’ yearning for closeness.
- Examples from the book:
- The physical distance between Baby Doe and Silver Dollar, caused by their different lifestyles and circumstances, is a constant source of tension and longing, and yet they write each other constantly, and treasure the letters.
- Haunted by memories of her daughter, Baby Doe’s attempts to understand Silver Dollar’s life are shadowed by the pain of her absence.
4. Conflicting Expectations and Judgments: A Clash of Wills
Mothers and daughters often have differing ideas about what is “right” or “acceptable” behavior, which can lead to tension and judgment, especially when societal expectations clash with personal desires. In Silver Echoes, this conflict is heightened by the fact that Baby Doe and Silver Dollar share a similar character trait of driving ambition and determination. This shared trait, which could unite them, ironically becomes a battleground for their differing worldviews. (Examples of similar personalities butting heads abound in real life!)
- Writing Challenge: Balancing the differing perspectives while acknowledging the underlying similarity in their strong-willed natures.
- Approach:
- It’s crucial to make the reader understand why each character holds their beliefs, even if those beliefs clash. Baby Doe’s traditional values are rooted in her experiences and her desire to protect her daughter, but it’s important to also show her ever-present ambition for her family’s success. Silver Dollar’s rebellious streak stems from her own equally powerful ambitions and frustrations with the limitations placed upon her, a trait she arguably inherited from her mother.
- The dual timeline highlights the emotional core of the disagreement, allowing the reader to empathize with both sides. The dialogue and actions should reveal not just the conflict but also the underlying respect and even admiration they have for each other’s strength.
- Examples from the book:
- Baby Doe’s disapproval of Silver Dollar’s career choices and lifestyle is not just about morality; it’s also about her own ambition for her daughter to achieve a certain kind of success and recognition without falling into the danger of the Prohibition gangsters and low-life burlesque scene.
- Silver Dollar’s frustration with her mother’s perceived judgment fuels her rebellion, but it’s also a way of asserting her own equally ambitious nature. Both women are driven, but their definitions of success and the means to achieve it differ drastically.
5. The Power of Forgiveness and Understanding:
Ultimately, stories about mothers and daughters often explore the possibility of forgiveness, understanding, and reconciliation. Even amidst deep conflict, the underlying love can endure.
- Writing Challenge: Making the reconciliation feel earned and believable, not contrived or overly simplistic.
- Approach: Showing growth and change in both characters.
- Both Baby Doe and Silver Dollar need to evolve throughout the story. They must confront their own biases, acknowledge their mistakes, and demonstrate a willingness to see the other’s perspective.
- The ending should offer hope for a stronger relationship but acknowledge that the complexities may not entirely disappear.
- Examples from the book:
- The climax of the mother-daughter conflict involves a moment of profound understanding and empathy, leading to a form of reconciliation.
- While the ending may not be a perfect resolution, it offers a sense of hope and the possibility of a more authentic connection.
By exploring these complex dynamics with honesty and nuance, we writers can create compelling and emotionally resonant stories that delve into the enduring power of the mother-daughter bond. Dedicated to my sweet mother, Peggy Cramer, who traveled with me to Colorado and Chicago researching Silver Echoes and Gold Digger, The Remarkable Baby Doe Tabor.
Such great insights into the mother-daughter dynamic, Rebecca. I’m sure readers will recognize some of their own circumstances in your article. Best wishes for the launch of Silver Echoes. As for the writing advice, I’m going to put it in my writing craft file!
Silver Echoes by Rebecca Rosenberg
A Spellbinding Saga of Ambition, Echoes, and Redemption. Based on a true story.
Chicago, 1920s: Movie starlet Silver Dollar Tabor’s glittering life shatters after a brutal attack awakens a hidden self. Plunging into the city’s dangerous underworld of burlesque speakeasies, she blurs the lines between ambition and destruction, testing her love for screenwriter Carl. This Jazz Age, Prohibition-era tale explores the dark side of fame and the fragility of identity.
Colorado, 1932: Haunted by Silver’s disappearance, her mother, Baby Doe, fights to save their family’s silver mine. A desperate search for her daughter unearths a shocking truth, rewriting their history. This dual timeline novel weaves a tale of resilience and the enduring bond between mother and daughter.
From the dazzling heights of the Flapper era to the rugged legacy of silver mining, Rebecca Rosenberg’s “Silver Echoes” delivers a gripping historical fiction experience. Baby Doe Tabor’s relentless quest for truth unearths the secrets of Silver Dollar Tabor. Perfect for fans of strong women in historical novels and stories based on real events.
What really happened to Silver Dollar Tabor? And can her mother uncover the truth before it’s too late?
Rebecca Rosenberg is a champagne geek, lavender farmer, and award-winning novelist of historical fiction. You can find her novels and more about Rebecca at www.rebecca-rosenberg.com.
Other appearances on A Writer of History:
- The Devil is in the Details – and Rebecca’s novel The Secret Life of Mrs. London
- Integrating Symbols Into a Story – featuring Gold Digger
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M.K. Tod writes historical fiction. Her latest novel THAT WAS THEN is a contemporary thriller. Mary’s other novels, THE ADMIRAL’S WIFE, PARIS IN RUINS, TIME AND REGRET, LIES TOLD IN SILENCE and UNRAVELLED are available from Amazon, Nook, Kobo, Google Play and iTunes. She can be contacted on her website www.mktod.com or by leaving a comment.
